7.7.22


he liked confidencehadnt lacked it since he quit stuttering as a youngster since they havent been able to shut him up 

confidence is revealed without a word it has a physicality in mannerisms how one carries themselves how they talk directly do not avert their eyes it is revealed in their walk

I saw you earlier this afternoon.

I missed you why didnt you stop me say hello

Couldn’t, I was a block and a half behind you.

They may not have been me

It was you, no mistaking you, it’s how you walk, the way you carry yourself . . unmistakable.

two other women who walked up on the water cooler overhearing their conversation nodded  We’d recognise you at a block and a half too, coming or going.

I did not know that


confident

competent

a competitor
              a quiet elaboration how one comports themselves



Whas not to like

Really. I think confident people are stuck up, full of themselves.

If they can carry water then whas your take

I’m uncomfortable around them.

  Why  Whas your consideration   Ive an idea

Nothing more than they make me uncomfortable.

Youll not put a finger on anything

No.  Being uncomfortable is plenty for me . .
. . Because you lack confidence
                                   they werent fighting words but they werent kind either he believed if his words were honest one shouldnt be upset by them any more than when someone is wrong shown they were wrong called out if necessary which usually has become the case now  people prefer to be right even when theyre wrong  he felt that they ought to be able to admit it when he was wrong he was untroubled admitting his mistake

I have confidence.
                    he wasnt convincing

Im not saying so to knock you Yare not confrontational its not in your makeup You prefer to get along Youll be agreeable just to get past the moment 
                                        However those are the moments when to stand correct the err before it can metastasise  poison others

Poison?  he asked harshly

Poison 
        Gangrene can cause the loss of a limb or kill the sufferer Why not try to help the sufferer before things go long If for nothing more  unable to dissuade them  that the next time they go to open their mouth theyre aware someone else might take up against them throw shade on them 
                                                     Theyre performers they want the bright spotlight they don wanna share a soapbox

So you want to help?

Aint grandstanding
                     We were corrected as children when we were wrong That shouldnt change because were older  Because were older we should have the grace to admit were wrong when we are wrong There is no shame Aint nobody perfect however we ought to strive for perfection Correcting one error at a time we grow closer

he almost mumbled  Then you do it.

I intend to  I will

1657,  Thursday,  16  6. 22
0948,  Thursday,  7  7. 22
Blood, Sweat & Tears  Spinning Wheel  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFEewD4EVwU

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