the poorest excuse for not doing something is because of consideration family feels it deserves

they aint doing it the doing falls on his shoulder his pocketbook his life

its his experiencenot theirs

                           and why they would presume they had two cents to offerhe hadnt asked floored him

Have you given any thought to how it will make us look?

Not a moment

Don’t you think you should?

No

It will reflect badly on us.

Yare gonna have to fill me in when an adult makes a decision for themselves how that decision reflects on anyone other than them

I cant say I recall anyone in the family asking me what I thought or how I thought their action would paint me  It wouldnt Its their decision

You might consider it off-colour extended family will consider it off-colour but none of you have a right to tell me what to do  No one

You’ll embarrass us.

Let me see if I can say this . . kindly . . . Nope  I dont care Its my life and I do what I want

1727,  Saturday,  1  8. 20

1121,  Monday,  3  8. 20

The Animals  It’s My Life  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILZndyhHWQ4