18.8.19


Now  thats the one way to get inside ones head 
                                                    read about a suicide attempt he didnt think anyone who was serious about suicide would fail his wife didnt she knocked it out of the park
as did his best friend

it hurt terribly

it still hurts

but it was their lives
                      their lives to do with as they wished

our lives are the only things we truly possess


he told them that he wanted what they wanted  that is his ideal of love

wanting for them unselfishly perhaps is what they needed


it still hurts
             but he understoodhe understood that suicide is not selfish

selfish are those who blame the dead for the pain their suicide caused them 

How dare they! was his thought
Think
       think of the decision to kill oneself self annihilation the couragetruly to die well die but to die by ones own hands


death-by-cop  he believed that was cowardly provoking them to kill you
                                                                             although in it he could see too it was just another mechanism

however 
          if you want to die you ought to assume entirely the responsibility  suicide isnt something to be spread around delegated



the article he read of suicide informed him of the putamen inside his skull hed never heard the word before although in Miami  Cuban he heard of word puta he heard it uttered at some of the blackhaired brownskinned beauties he dated by Cuban men who obviously didnt like that he was dating them

curiously they accosted the women rather than provoke him cheap machismo

Puta like the hiss of a snake

Whats that about Puta

Nothing, he’s a pig. I wouldn’t see him.


putamen "meaning nutshell is a round structure located at the base of the forebrain telencephalon the putamen and caudate nucleus together form the dorsal striatum  it is also one of the structures that comprise the basal nuclei

the basal nucleibasal ganglia are collections of subcortical nuclei gray matter in each hemisphere that help regulate voluntary movements that are selected planned and executed elsewhere in the brain"

he assumed voluntary meant those actions he voluntarily made

it was his brainhis decision not the basal nuclei or basal ganglias decision  

seemed by such description that they could be scapegoated he could be minimised
damn if he was going to be minimised
                                         though he saw the benefit perhaps a familial benefit  to accuse a collective of neurons rather than the wife daughter husband son sister brother mother father
                                                                                     rather than accept their decision their remarkably difficult brave decision


he never conceived of suicide

and not doing so 

not of that mindset

he was ignorant

and he would be ignorant if he possessedassumed their process because he wouldnt go there


his wife told him Imagine. I know you have a fertile imagination. Imagine my pain.


he told her that he couldnt he couldnt go there because Life was everything to him Life was a drug Life was a gift given day by day  he relished it

You’re a fool.

she was breathtaking 
                          No Its my philosophymy headstrong belief

Belief? You don’t believe in God, you don’t believe in religion. How can you talk of belief?

No Youve known that since we started dating Your belief and my belief have always been at odds Are you saying now that were incompatible that perhaps youre realising that now

Ive never lied to you

Have you lied to me

I prefer to believe you have not

For if you have its to your detriment  

Not mine


You’re very cruel.

No I have always been honest with you 

Brutally honest.

Yes if you would  brutally honest Ive been no guesswork 

Ive always told you exactly what I thought Always


I haven’t always liked what you said.

But thats the point of communication 

Were two different people two different people who love one another 

Marriage doesnt change us


Did you think I was going to change



I hoped you’d change.


Baby  I love you for who you are I never thought to remake you  Im terribly sorry if Ive disappointed you Im only who I am


1148,  Saturday,  17  8. 18

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